Tuesday, May 28, 2024

Backyard BBQ

We finally got another nice sunny day!  And we had an impromptu BBQ for Memorial Day. 

I ran my last long run before the race, 8 miles.  

Then it was so nice out!  I wanted people to join me by the pool.  I texted a picture to our family group thread and was so happy that Monet and Carson could come over too!  Jared and Soren came home from Father Sons Sports Camp.  

We all missed Miles when we were playing corn hole.  Simone brought out the speaker and had some good tunes.  And we played Spikeball, ate some good food, and of course, Soleil was the main event.

We got to talk to Miles since it was his P-Day.  He was making us all laugh.  Loved that he got to go fishing for P-Day!  He said they had to walk to the pond, and it was like 6 miles away haha.

The dogs are always so happy when everyone is outside.

It was so nice to be outside and enjoying all the sunshine!


.5 always makes the legs look so weird haha




We all think its funny how she lifts her legs on the grass

Another Spindrift lover





Sunday, May 26, 2024

Sorens Last Day of Elementary


Love this boy so much!  He's ready to be moving on, and so am I!  19 years of having a child in elementary is a long time.  He's taller than me!  5'5"!  

Junior High is going to be fun!  He's taking all the advanced classes.  He is a smart kid and a good student and I love how responsible he is.  He is at BYU this weekend at the Fathers Sons Sports Camp with Jared. He is really having fun.  Hope BYU is in his future because it would be a great fit for him.  He's going to take violin for orchestra.  I'm excited for him.

 

12 Miles progress

 



Running downhill is the BEST.  And I'm excited for the half next week!

Garden Journal

I've been spending lots of time in the yard!  Also looking at nurseries.  Here is my garden journal basically.

This wasn't supposed to be this color but I like it anyway

Transplanted this catmint last year.  The hydrangeas are not growing great behind them.  Maybe the pine tree is causing the soil to be acidic. Which isn't great for Annabelle hydrangeas.

catmint goes everywhere.  Not sure if I should even try to get rid of some of it.  The new variety "cats pajamas" is really vibrant and cool and the flowers cover the plant.  Wish I had that kind!



Grapes!  These were pruned for the first time ever.  And they needed it.  So this year there will probably be less while we train them better.

Quick Fire Hydrangeas, Angel Wings and Pink Rock Candy Penstemon


These were 8 foot elderberries we cut down to 12" this March.  They grow so fast.  I will always cut them back if I don't remove them.

Not much for the bees yet!  Some snapdragons and catmint.

This needs a bunch of Hostas and Astilbe




porch pots!

I don't like these two purples together and will move one of them

Been waiting so long to get one of these!  Very excited to see it bloom

Everything got pruned hard this year and looks good except for the Potentilla.  And much more manageable shape and size.  Should be easier to find the grapes.  But we won't have so many.  But we needed to get things under control.  Youcandoitgardening really inspired me this year.

The elderberries are so much better.  I still have like five more to cut down.  I don't really like all the elderberries and I'm considering taking some of them out and replacing them, but this is the first step to see if I like them better without the massive size.

We took out the Potentilla which I've always disliked.  Apparently it needs to stay moist or it dries out and it just looks half dead and I don't like it anyway.  I don't like the color of the yellow flowers on them.  Paco hooked up a chain to his truck and around the bushes and just popped them out like a loose tooth with a piece of floss.  So cool!  

I pruned so many rosebushes this year and they are all so big again!  Much better shape though.  I moved the ones from behind the shed yesterday.  We will see if they make it!  I planted them like 10 years ago and they have been shaded by the shed we built for 4 years.  Not and ideal place.

I've been to several nurseries this week!  Its fun to compare.  I still love Sun River Gardens the best.  But Cooks had some good prices on their perennials.  I'm trying to stop buying plants for awhile.  I got enough already.  But when I do buy more, I'm going to get hostas, New England Aster, Storm Cloud Amsonia, Hardy Aster, Red Muhly Grass.  I went to Glover's Nursery for the first time.  They have so many plants in stock.  But its really expensive!  Holy.

I did love this weird black grass!  Would be cool in a halloween themed porch pot.  Maybe I buy some just for fun!


Still lots to do out front!  I am switching my formula.  I used to plant a lot of annuals in this small front area.  But I'm liking the park strip at Sun River Gardens and am moving toward clean, clumping low maintenance perennials.  Then I don't have so many things to replace each year.  I love the orange geum.  And the pink dianthus.  This garden looks great all summer and into fall with sedum, grasses, hydrangeas, boxwood, ornamental onions, etc.







This is my sisters beautiful house.  Look how beautiful her stone wall is with these gorgeous roses and blue star! Finally figured out what these pretty blue flowers are.  Blue Ice Amsonia.  No one carries this kind that stays more compact so I ordered some online.  I love how bright it is and how it looks with these blooming climbing roses.  I planted one of these climbing roses on my chicken fence now that I don't have chickens who would eat it.


One of the taller Blue Star Amsonia varieties in fall.  

Pink Muhly grass on my wishlist.  I'm just learning about grasses.  Never planted any before.







Saturday, May 25, 2024

Some Bathroom Updates

When Miles left on his mission we realized his shower valve wasn't working (he never told us just took cold showers for months) and it kinda lit a fire to get some plumbing replaced which then led to us realizing we wanted to update some of the bathrooms.

It was easy thanks to Handyman Trevor who is so awesome (Thanks Angela!)  I love not having to work around colored sinks.  We didn't want to change tile and I wasn't quite ready to paint cabinets, although that may come soon.  How did we live so long with those modern sinks that are so far from my style?  We had a bad quote from some person and I thought it would be so hard to get rid of them.  Nope it was so easy and not expensive at all.  The finished product isn't fancy, but its much improved.

We have a plan to paint and do some other fun things to liven it all up for now it's better.










My little Sunshine




I went to help Elise with her graduation/family pictures and the photographer took a few of me with Soleil at the end.  So nice!  It took me so long to get there because we all got rear ended in the truck on our way to photos.  So Elise's mother in law picked them up and got them to the photographer and I followed as soon as I was done with the report, etc.  Frustrating situation but I always count my blessings when there is a minor accident.  

Being a grandma is pretty amazing.  I've loved watching cute Soleil while Elise and Ethan had school.  My life this past 9 years has looked really different than when my kids were really little.   Soleil helps me to remember what I did with all my time.  I'm glad I have my blog to look back on what it was like when I had four and five little ones to take care of all day.  Because I've honestly forgotten so much of what life was like then.  Every stage has been so fun to see.  I love that she knows us and is comfortable with us.  I love how she reaches for us and will give me a hug.  I love watching how cute and playful Jared is with babies.  

Having Soleil has been the best reminder that being a mom is hard work.  It takes a lot of patience.  A lot of selflessness.  Look at all of those endless days we spent loving them, nurturing them, taking care of that cute little person is pretty consuming.   It hard to believe I had 12+ years of having a baby or toddler around.  

And now when I watch Soleil, I think, "How did I do this 5 times?"  How did I get anything done?  Because now I get to just play with her, one child, and then she goes back to Elise.  But when I had 5 kids, its all day, everyday babies, toddlers, bigger kids all at the same time.  No wonder it was hard to get the yard cleaned up.  Or the laundry sat in piles.  There is so much to do during naps, and sometimes we were all just so tired.  And I'm being gentler with myself for the worrying with my teens.  Its part of the deal when you've spent so much time loving them.  Being a little protective is understandable.  And I know when they have their own kids they will get it.

Anyway, I've loved having cute Soleil around.  We smile so much more these days.

Cutting Garden

I've always wanted a cutting garden and I am very excited that we turned the unused former chicken area to a big garden. I have a hard time cutting my flowers out of my yard.  I'm not sure why because there are more than enough.  Now I think I will not care about cutting them to use in the house.

To get this area ready, we tilled, dug out stumps, threw out rocks, bricks and all kinds of random things.  I took photos each day of the light to monitor how much light and shade we have in that back corner.  We had some cottonwood trees that had sprouted up years ago and we took those out with help from Paco.  I cut down some more gamble oak limbs and trees.  The finished result is much better light for flowers.

We realized that half of the area will probably stay shady unless we are willing to cut down a lot more trees which we don't want at this point.  Open to having more chickens there someday.

Then I weeded and raked and tried to level a bit the ground.  We used drip tape for the irrigation, like at Snuck Farm.  This was the easy part and took 40 minutes to install.   I got all the stuff at Dripworks.  Then I got some green trellis netting to support the plants as they grow.  I went to the Snuck Farm cold season and warm season plant sale and bought so many great things!  I love that they had a lot of the colors that I would choose for a bouquet.  We put down some compost over the existing soil and planted everything!

**Some of our neighbors were sad we got rid of our chickens and goats.  But the reason we had to was because our open chicken run combined with goats attracted a lot of rats.  Ew.  The goats prevented the cat from hunting in the run.  They would go after him if he came in.  So after trying to figure out new ways to contain the feed, we realized we just needed to have a period of no barnyard animals for a bit.  If I get chickens again I will bury hardware cloth below the smaller run and keep the run totally enclosed to prevent raccoons and rodents from accessing food or chickens.**



Before cutting trees lots of shadows.  Also goathouse is on its side cause its so heavy and I was moving it by myself to get it out of the way.













lots more sun!  Everything planted except a few dahlia tubers I saved from last year.  I'm going to try planting in the front yard just to see how they do.  200 square feet of flowers.  I'm excited!

We also cleared some junk trees from our orchard area and will plant pumpkins and
add another raspberry patch there.   Also we have one zucchini plant.

My pretty peachy Iris from the front yard.  This North side everything grows so well!

So while I would love to have all my yard look be stuffed with flowers, the water is the main issue.  I can't run drips everywhere and now I have trees to block the sun, etc.  So I just put all the things I love in the cutting garden and packed it in.

Here is what I have planted:

Dahlias:

Row 1w

Cafe au lait x 3

Daisy duke x3

Linda’s baby x3

Totally tangerine

Chim Luke 

Cornel bronze 

Jowey Chantel

Linda’s baby

My tubers not sure cafe au lait or other


Row 2w

Cafe au lait x3

Chim Luke x3

Black satin

Cafe au lait

Silver years

Sweet Natalie

Karma choc


Row 3w

Foxglove

Delphinium


Row 4w

Aster

Cosmos

Baby’s breath


East row

1

Zinnia seeds

Amaranth


2

Zinnia seeds


3

Sunflowers

3 kinds

Branching

White

Tall golden center

violets transplanted from pool area